If there’s one popular misconception I’d like to address, it’s this: I am not a healer.
The simple truth is that you are not broken, and there is nothing about you that needs fixing. This truth is foundational to our work together because I don’t see myself as some kind of healer or mechanic but rather as your guide on the most profound transformation of your life – your literal rebirth. That being the case, if I were to adopt a title, it wouldn’t be “healer,” but rather “spiritual midwife.”
And, just like a midwife who’s witnessed the miracle of childbirth countless times, I also know the outcome of your journey – the baby you will birth – because I’ve seen it, and I know it’s there within you, dormant but very much alive, right this very moment.
Just like every other being in this world, you have a radiant, authentic self within you, the beauty of which could bring tears of awe to your eyes if you knew the truth of its magnificence. And please understand, I’m not saying this in some spiritual, woo-woo, or mumbo-jumbo sort of way. I am telling you that there exists an essence so pure and so beautiful within you right now that, once released, the kind of light it will cast on this world will be truly awe-inspiring.
How can I be so sure? Because we were all born with it. It’s our true nature, it’s the uninhibited smile on an innocent baby’s face, the gentle coo that escapes its lips without a care for circumstance. All that has happened is that the light of this authentic self was suppressed by our well-meaning families, school systems, and society trying to make us fit into what was expected of us. This suppression led us to doubt this inner being’s urges and impulses and to vilify our own desires. We doubted ourselves and told ourselves we were wrong and different because we didn’t fit into the mold.
My role is to guide you out of the shadows of societal conditioning, the hell of false self-perception, and the belief that there’s something wrong with you. Our work is not to mend a damaged spirit, but to birth your authentic self that’s always been there waiting quietly, shrouded by layers of fear, self-doubt, and societal judgement. And, with this rebirth, comes an exhilarating transformation. You’ll not just change; you’ll transmute into the most powerful version of yourself.
To me, this process of self-transformation shares more similarities with childbirth than with any form of remedial healing or coaching. And, just like in childbirth, the labor is solely yours to bear. I will be there to help and guide you, but our collaborative journey involves an intensive and courageous process of self-examination and honesty. You will have to be the one to delve deeply and face parts of yourself and your past that you may have chosen to repress or ignore. But, also just like in childbirth, in undergoing this process, you give birth to a new life – your authentic self, radiating an unwavering state of love, peace, faith, and joy, regardless of external circumstances.
As your spiritual midwife, I am here to ensure the conditions for your rebirth are right, to facilitate your transition through the discomfort and the growing pains of birthing your authenticity. But remember, the journey is yours and yours alone – it is you who must push, you who must breathe life into your true self.
Living as your true self, wholly and unapologetically, will have a profound impact not just on you but on everyone you encounter. Your light will shine brighter, your energy will become more potent, and your influence on this world will magnify. Fearless and empowered, you will become the creator of your own life, a beacon of authenticity, inspiring others and contributing to the evolution of the world around you.
This is when you finally get to enjoy life’s true playground, where you can dance freely and inspire others to do the same. Are you ready to embark on this journey of transformation? The world is waiting for your light. It’s time for you to be reborn!